07 May 2018

Abuse is a contagious disease which if left to continue without anyone taking a step to fight it, can impose harsh effects on the society.

This was said by Prince Maroku, the author of a book titled My scars are my Trophies during the launch in Gaborone recently.

Maroku said abuse had devastating impact and could create a wide range and long lasting physical emotional and psychological scars.

Having experienced abuse, Maroku decided he had had enough by taking a bold step to share his message through the book.

In the book he describes how he was overwhelmed by the repercussions of rape, ultimately depression and how he rose against the odds.

Born in Tumasera in 1984, Maroku, also a gospel artiste said some people may feel uncomfortable or intimidated by what had been captured in the book as he had left no stone unturned.

He said people have to understand that the results of abuse were like a death sentence and deprived one the chance to be free and happy.

He said many people have endured suffering, mostly in families and relationships due to, among others, domestic violence and rape.
“It happened that I fell down along the path during the cause of my life.

But some people were like, ‘yes, let it happen to him. He deserves it. They made fun of me.

I realised that to get rid of the pain and shame I went through, it was best to embrace it, be thankful, forgive the perpetrators, and have inner peace,” he said.

He said the experience made him realise that he was more important than what people would say and the pain he endured.

Maroku said he came to a point where he questioned why he should be pointing fingers at people if at all he wanted to educate the community on certain issues as well as to heal.

 “My scares... does not necessarily reflect the pain and shame I went through, but the smiles that I’m wearing today, the strength I have, the boldness and the courage.I have learnt that life is not about people around you, but about you as the key player,” he said.

Maroku said the trials he endured had taught him to be grateful, hence reminding people to establish their purpose in life.

“It is important for people to know why they exist and to let their scars have a meaning in life,” he said

A relative, Olorato Tumagole said they were proud of their brother as he had also given them courage to face life. ENDS